Pro's and Con's

In life we are almost always hit by the unexpected.  However, always is literally incorrect.  There is one case it may be correct in and that is this one.  The thing is there are so many obstacles that try to either stop us or keep us moving.  That is were we hit the Pro's and Con's.  The Pro's are the good and the Con's the bad.  Now its up to us on how we want to deal with them, and how we want to view them.  I am going to start off explaining the Pro's.
   The Pro's are good as in they are the positive thoughts running through your head, the positive obstacles keeping you on your feet and keeping you on the go.  When you run into Pro then you realize to yourself that there is so much to learn from it.  Such as making yourself more and more positive to a daily extent.  One thing that i have learned is that from the past i learned that instead of focusing on the Con when running into an obstacle, I view it as a Pro.  This helps broaden my understanding and keeps me fighting to get over it a lot quicker and easier.  Don't let the Con overlap the Pro because when it does you will feel lost.  What i mean by overlap is don't let the Con take the Pro over.  "You are the only one who can change yourself, nobody can change you for you." Which is one of the quotes that i have recently come up with because if you think about it, it is a Pro.  Reason being that nobody will be there to tell you "You need to change" or "You need to do this for me".  I could keep talking about this subject all day because people have never tried to apply this to their life.
   Then we hit the Con's which is the evil either inside of you speaking.  Or its the obstacle that wants to shut you up and keep you stuck in a ditch.  There is so much to learn in both areas that it is ridiculous.  However, you have to be able to tell when the Con is there in you or around you and you have to try and stop it.  Such as you can't let it get the best of you.  This is were you have to fight and you have to view everything as positive.  This was how I was at first due to the fact that I almost always let the negative win.  Just because i was stubborn and didn't want to believe there was truly a Pro or a positive thought.  We all need to view the Pro and the Con in our life and apply it to the many ways we struggle, see things, talk to people, walk and more.
   Do not let everything get you down, because life is to short to let that happen.  Reason being that the more stress you have the shorter you live.  That is why you have to be positive and focus on the Pro's.  Stay strong and fight for what you want.

Thank you for listening and hope this helps anyone out there thats struggling